The Law of Reciprocity Reciprocity is a hard word to say and I’m sure I’ll get to say it a lot through this education! The Law of Reciprocity is part …
Givers Gain
“Ladies, please bring a plate” Q. Who is old enough to remember when invitations to group social events asked “ladies, please bring a plate? Wow, you lot are old! Can …
Is there plenty or not enough?
Article contributed by Geoff Kirkwood. Start by saying to the chapter…… I want you all to think about how much total potential business there is in your category? How much …
Good referrals don’t happen by accident
Instead of waiting for an opening to refer a member in your chapter, why not deliberately set out to create those opportunities on their behalf? Let me explain. I have …
Quality begets quality
Have you received a referral that, even as it’s incoming, you know is going to be a dead loss? Of course, sometimes we jump to incorrect conclusions, which in itself …
Manners maketh the business
Our mothers taught us right when they asserted that ‘manners maketh the man / woman’. Manners also maketh the business. Not only are manners important socially, but they can make a …
The real meaning of ‘Givers Gain’
I’m speaking at the BNI Big Breakfast in Wellington next week about Givers Gain – about real reciprocity – how it’s a powerful technique of ‘influence’ and how when used …
Givers Gain
My enquiry into leadership has led me to ‘The Art of Loving’ by Erich Fromm. Fromm is one of the major figures in the field of psychoanalysis – and the …