Last time we talked about how you should train your BNI to sell on your behalf. Like a good sales manager, you must equip your ‘team’ with the tools they need for the sales process. One technique is to tell a good story.
A good story which helps your team sell on your behalf should be viral in nature. In other words, one they believe is worth repeating – whether it’s at the water-cooler or around the barbeque.
The first element of a good viral story is the passion with which you deliver it. Your delivery must be enthusiastic and passionate because it doesn’t matter how good a story is if nobody is made to listen. If you talk softly, in a monotone or with little enthusiasm, that mood translates to your audience and they probably won’t even tune into most of it – never mind remember it.
So what are the elements of a good story? Well, a joke is a good story… look how often people are want to repeat good jokes. I’m not suggesting you tell jokes, but that you analyse a joke that you like to see how it works and why it works.
Another way is to tick the boxes on these elements of a good story:
* The story should have a hero – usually you or someone in your company;
* The story should have a ‘damsel in distress. It is important that we care about our damsel. Tell us a bit about them. Why he or she is a good person and why we should care about what happens to that person.
* The story should be about a problem – remember a problem is really a situation which is ignored. When that situation is ignored it becomes a problem., and the longer we ignore it the bigger the problem becomes.
* The problem should hold consequences for the person we care about. It’s not something we want them to have to endure, or at least endure further.
* Complication – just when you thought it couldn’t get any worse, there’s a complication. Perhaps your customer tries to solve their problem and only ends up making it worse.
* The story should have a challenge. What are the obstacles to solving the problem?
* Finally, the grand finale. How did you solve the problem? How did you overcome the obstacles to get there, and what was the final big problem – the dragon you had to slay?
If we care about the ‘damsel’ then the solution needn’t be dramatic, or funny or carry a great punch line – although it helps.
The most important thing is that we care for the people involved.
And that is how you keep your audience riveted. Oh yes, one final thing – you have 60 seconds; but don’t worry… all the great stories are short and sharp.
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Well done Colin, you have made story telling sound so simple, it should be something we all do every week.
There is no doubt that members thrive on good stories especially if they can identify with the hero’s.
I am looking forward to meeting lot’s of hero’s in the next few weeks.
Nice post Colin – as usual!
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Thanks Alastair – stories have held power for thousands of years; it’s surprising how little we use them.
Nice blog. We always say that facts tell, stories sell, but this is a great explanation of what makes a good story.
Hey Tim,
Good to see one of the BNI co – National Director of the UK on here 🙂 We are looking forwards to seeing some more UK contributors – hopefully we will soon be featuring material from Thomas & Penny Power. If any UK members/directors would like to contribute we would be pleased to post their material. We recently posted an article by James Cruickshanks from East Anglia.
Hi Tim
Another good saying (from the world of storytelling) is ‘show, don’t tell’.
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