Comments on: Parallel versus aligned relationships and the difference it makes. https://bniblog.co.nz/be-inspired/parallel-versus-aligned-relationships-and-the-difference-it-makes/ This is the blog of BNI (Business Network International) New Zealand Tue, 12 Nov 2024 10:25:48 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.2 By: Wilma Ham https://bniblog.co.nz/be-inspired/parallel-versus-aligned-relationships-and-the-difference-it-makes/comment-page-1/#comment-1954 Tue, 02 Feb 2010 06:42:08 +0000 http://bniblog.co.nz/?p=1060#comment-1954 Hi Graham, yes holding the problem in place is something we are very good at. It makes a huge difference if we could let go of that and indeed have a solution manifest.
Isn’t it great to attend a course that resonates?
PS do not feel sorry for John, if you want to live in nature you have to deal with your own garbage.
And he had a good support team (on the sideline!) :~)

]]> By: Graham Southwell https://bniblog.co.nz/be-inspired/parallel-versus-aligned-relationships-and-the-difference-it-makes/comment-page-1/#comment-1953 Tue, 02 Feb 2010 06:14:54 +0000 http://bniblog.co.nz/?p=1060#comment-1953 Thanks Wilma,
I recently completed a short course in Psychosynthesis – and one of the key learnings for me was the idea that when you have a problem/issue/task that a key step is to ‘let it be’ to hold a point of tension between yourself and the issue – to create the space as it were – and to let the solution to the problem to manifest itself. I guess that this is along similar lines to what you are talking about here – so thanks for sharing your story.

Graham

PS I did feel sorry for John having to sort out the problem!

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